Lingerie is a Staple in a Healthy Relationship

We contribute to the success of our relationships.  It’s a two-way street, there’s no doubt about that.  Focusing on the relationship is an important factor in longevity.  Lingerie definitely plays an important part. Wearing something sexy underneath your clothes makes you feel sexy and confident.  Your partner will definitely appreciate it and you can use it to entice them and be flirty.  When you sleep, wear nice, sexy things.  Don’t wear baggy flannel pyjamas or cover up completely.  Although wearing his t-shirt can be sexy sometimes, don’t make a habit of it.  Wear camisoles, silk or satin negligees or nighties, things with lace or a sexy pattern … all these things speak volumes to your partner.  It tells them that you are attractive and you find them attractive and that they are important to you.  You might think this is backwards or that your partner should want and love you regardless of what you have underneath your clothes.  You’re right, they should love and want you at your best and worst, but give them a reason to WANT you, make them drool and keep the spark alive.  Give them something to look forward to.  Keep those extra special pieces for special occasions, but wearing a matching bra and panty set each day and incorporating lace and other sexy materials and styles into your daily routine is a must.  Granny undies not allowed!  Believe me, it will do wonders for your confidence and your relationship.